Self-denial is my way of self-identifying at a distance. When I m unproductive, I work on making my neighbour happy.I believe in “Giving to Receive”. There are days when I run out of inspirational resources and there’s nothing I can do for myself. Conversely, there’s always something we can do for others.In media jargon, it’s called […]
Face-to-face communication is always more effective. Speaking the same language with people of different races is translated culturally. Communication is amazingly 70% bodily and only 30% verbal. Don’t confuse Globalization with Communication. Learn the culture of the people before jumping to conclusions, even more so in our technological age. Communication is not just about language.It’s about […]
Reward is an indispensable component of my daily life. Work is the most common form of reward, these days.The neurotypical spend more time at work than at home, sadly. I like my job however, reward runs in a different direction for me: I need my post-work reward. Matching work with entertainment entails two main obstacles: […]
Reward is a powerful antidepressant. I need Reward for everything.Money has become an imposed motivator in our society. Middle-age is the most demanding period of life, Volunteering is a rare option.I love volunteering, although I can’t afford it at this time.I did a lot of rewarding voluntary work in my youth. Working for money only, is demotivating.Sadly, Work […]
The downsides of technology have proven stronger than the benefits. It is no longer a generational thing. We’re experiencing an Internet meltdown for the last few days and I feel isolated.I never felt that way in my youth. Internet started as a valuable resource in the mid-90s just to turn into slavery. I had my first […]
It is difficult for neurodivergents to experience Camaraderie, despite the longstanding way. Camaraderie is Acceptance throughout Belonging, Loyalty, Fellowship, highly valued societal gifts. I was talking recently of the years we grew up in.We use to refer to those imprinting times as ‘generations’.New Generations typically borne every 20 years, the average lifespan of Youth.I’m not […]
Acceptance is the key to a successful global society. Our society is still funded on the principle of Adaptation rather than Equality. I find adaptation discriminatory. Today I came across an article about Equality, stating that our society is not set for it. No political ideology will ever achieve full equality.Corruption is a byproduct of Equality, no surprise […]
Loneliness is either mystical or traumatic. I dread loneliness, it paralyzes me.I can’t live without my wife.I have abandonment issues. Is Abandonment a trauma?It certainly is for me.Others are comfortable with loneliness, they experience a sense of freedom and introspection.As you can discern, it s a multifaceted subject. We all desire ‘some time alone’, it’s detoxing and beneficial.Isolation […]
Could ASD be a ‘Claim of Convenience’? Is Wealth beneficial to neurodivergents? I believe it is background related. It definitely is for those raised in rich families, since the family becomes Comfort Zone. On the contrary, Wealth can build up anxiety in those coming from lower classes. Coincidentally, big financial tycoons happen to be on […]
We subconsciously put undue pressure on each-other in the form of money. Providence is usually associated with religion, typically referred to as Divine Providence.Christians dwell in the belief that God has a plan for each one of us.There is no failure for God. Why fear then? Suffering and Poverty are shunned by society, they are […]
