Living the Present is a great struggle in our fast-paced life. Mental Health professionals refer to Projection for Compulsive Planning. We all project to a varying degree.However, it turns out that long-term projecting works any good: circumstances change, so do the effects on anxiety.I ‘m working hard on Projecting, the more I project, the more anxious I […]
Autism can be better managed when diagnosed in childhood. Don’t wait to address your diversity. Age is a major issue in Autism. Most people still believe Autism is a childhood condition that eventually will naturally stabilize in adulthood. Many adult autistics are unaware and undiagnosed. Teachers knew nothing of Mental Health 40 years ago.Nowadays teachers […]
The Future is Now. Time in Christianity is the Present, yet we live in the Past and obsess over invisible things like the Future. Planning is legitimate if put in the “Yours will be done” context. There is no foreseeing the future whether you’re religious or not. It’s just a matter of escapism. Don’t build your […]
Self-denial is my way of self-identifying at a distance. When I m unproductive, I work on making my neighbour happy.I believe in “Giving to Receive”. There are days when I run out of inspirational resources and there’s nothing I can do for myself. Conversely, there’s always something we can do for others.In media jargon, it’s called […]
Face-to-face communication is always more effective. Speaking the same language with people of different races is translated culturally. Communication is amazingly 70% bodily and only 30% verbal. Don’t confuse Globalization with Communication. Learn the culture of the people before jumping to conclusions, even more so in our technological age. Communication is not just about language.It’s about […]
Reward is an indispensable component of my daily life. Work is the most common form of reward, these days.The neurotypical spend more time at work than at home, sadly. I like my job however, reward runs in a different direction for me: I need my post-work reward. Matching work with entertainment entails two main obstacles: […]
Reward is a powerful antidepressant. I need Reward for everything.Money has become an imposed motivator in our society. Middle-age is the most demanding period of life, Volunteering is a rare option.I love volunteering, although I can’t afford it at this time.I did a lot of rewarding voluntary work in my youth. Working for money only, is demotivating.Sadly, Work […]
The downsides of technology have proven stronger than the benefits. It is no longer a generational thing. We’re experiencing an Internet meltdown for the last few days and I feel isolated.I never felt that way in my youth. Internet started as a valuable resource in the mid-90s just to turn into slavery. I had my first […]
It is difficult for neurodivergents to experience Camaraderie, despite the longstanding way. Camaraderie is Acceptance throughout Belonging, Loyalty, Fellowship, highly valued societal gifts. I was talking recently of the years we grew up in.We use to refer to those imprinting times as ‘generations’.New Generations typically borne every 20 years, the average lifespan of Youth.I’m not […]
Acceptance is the key to a successful global society. Our society is still funded on the principle of Adaptation rather than Equality. I find adaptation discriminatory. Today I came across an article about Equality, stating that our society is not set for it. No political ideology will ever achieve full equality.Corruption is a byproduct of Equality, no surprise […]
