Entries by Nagi

Work and Money in ADHD

Reward is a powerful antidepressant. I need Reward for everything.Money has become an imposed motivator in our society. Middle-age is the most demanding period of life, Volunteering is a rare option.I love volunteering, although I can’t afford it at this time.I did a lot of rewarding voluntary work in my youth. Working for money only, is demotivating.Sadly, Work […]

Media Isolation

The downsides of technology have proven stronger than the benefits. It is no longer a generational thing.  We’re experiencing an Internet meltdown for the last few days and I feel isolated.I never felt that way in my youth. Internet started as a valuable resource in the mid-90s just to turn into slavery. I had my first […]

Camaraderie

 It is difficult for neurodivergents to experience Camaraderie, despite the longstanding way. Camaraderie is Acceptance throughout Belonging, Loyalty, Fellowship, highly valued societal gifts. I was talking recently of the years we grew up in.We use to refer to those imprinting times as ‘generations’.New Generations typically borne every 20 years, the average lifespan of Youth.I’m not […]

Equality

Acceptance is the key to a successful global society. Our society is still funded on the principle of Adaptation rather than Equality. I find adaptation discriminatory.  Today I came across an article about Equality, stating that our society is not set for it. No political ideology will ever achieve full equality.Corruption is a byproduct of Equality, no surprise […]

Loneliness in Neurodivergence

Loneliness is either mystical or traumatic. I dread loneliness, it paralyzes me.I can’t live without my wife.I have abandonment issues. Is Abandonment a trauma?It certainly is for me.Others are comfortable with loneliness, they experience a sense of freedom and introspection.As you can discern, it s a multifaceted subject. We all desire ‘some time alone’, it’s detoxing and beneficial.Isolation […]

Wealth

Could ASD be a ‘Claim of Convenience’? Is Wealth beneficial to neurodivergents? I believe it is background related. It definitely is for those raised in rich families, since the family becomes Comfort Zone. On the contrary, Wealth can build up anxiety in those coming from lower classes. Coincidentally, big financial tycoons happen to be on […]

God plans

We subconsciously put undue pressure on each-other in the form of money. Providence is usually associated with religion, typically referred to as Divine Providence.Christians dwell in the belief that God has a plan for each one of us.There is no failure for God. Why fear then? Suffering and Poverty are shunned by society, they are […]

Providence

Poverty is always been heavily stigmatized. The poor is often overlooked as the perpetrator of their own demise. Jesus was poor His whole life and taught us to see God in the poor. Everybody struggles with finances at some point in life.Financial stress is not necessarily associated with poverty but instability. Nonetheless, the wealthy are […]

Motivation in ASD/ADHD

Hope and Motivation go hand in hand. Same goes for Hopelessness and Depression. Today I have no motivation.I’m even wondering why I m writing.I’m forcing myself to, though I m proud of my determination. I’m alone and it s raining.I’m in a hopeless phase. Luckily, I know it s temporary. We can’t modify dead ends. The term […]

International relationships in Autism

The place where you live can define your personality. Talking about the importance of an harmonious environment for autistics. We all need harmony however, stress management is easier for neurotypicals. A stress-free life doesn’t exist, we must learn how to survive in the middle of the storms that soon or later, life throws at everyone. […]