Compromise and ADHD

Reward is an indispensable component of my daily life.

Work is the most common form of reward, these days.
The neurotypical spend more time at work than at home, sadly.

I like my job however, reward runs in a different direction for me: I need my post-work reward.

Matching work with entertainment entails two main obstacles: preferences and time, even more so, in an interracial marriage.
You’ll have to assume that work and reward go hand-in-hand in this country where I live with my wife.
I fully love my wife, despite differences exist in all couples.
Respectfully arguing is constructive and inevitable.

Our timetables are very changeable. 

Home serves as relaxation to me, Homework is out of the question.

For my wife, home is a personal clinic: she would organize for the next day, soak in the bathtub for two hours, hit the bed to watch a movie at 10pm, my sleeping time, since I need at least 8 hours of rest.

Solution???
COMPROMISE = Respectfully Arguing= one night for you, one night for me.
And a lot of patience.
The only Alternative is staying Single.

No Solution is better or worse, cultural and religious beliefs are the main motivators in living’ status.
The general stereotype is still the Family as in Marriage.
All religions support Marriage in Family. 
Many young people support cohabitation, recently.

Avoiding judgement is paramount in the topic.
Giving advice is always a wise move.