Managing time is awkward with ADHD/ASD yet inevitable.
Finding the right balance is essential in relationships. Combining time with reward is very powerful in brain neurotransmission.
Time is a State of mind to me.
Man created Time.
God is timeless.
To say that my mind determines Time, I m not a 9 to 5 person.
My definition of Time is Motivation.
Without motivation I can’t do anything.
ADHD Medication becomes indispensable to pave the way to deadlines.
However, I understand that Time is a form of respect too and I try hard to compromise with my partner.
I’ll give an example: I want to post my blogs to date.
She wants me to post on her platform of choice in her Time, e.g. “tomorrow is better”…. What’s the difference between today and tomorrow once the editing is done???
That’s a major loss of Motivation/Time to me.
Today is one of those days.
But I’m pretty good at compromising by going into ‘compensation mode’: “Ok, I’ll keep Bowie playing all day!”
And we both end up happy.
So, could Time be a form of Compromising?