
Agony
Nostalgia is one of the main weather related factors to me. Climate change brings me back in time. I dread doomsday.
Monday, ‘Transition time’ .
I'm in anguish, complicit the Asian monsoon season.
The average Asian typhoon wreaks…

Mindsets
Changing location has the potential of adopting a new approach to life. In my case, home. I’m not in the clear mindset to make life-changing decisions outside my comfort zone.
I'm very nostalgic these days.
That raises the question…

Traumatic Memories
I just celebrated my birthday and wish I could sink.
I see no purpose in Celebrating birthdays by stereotypes: cake, blowing candles as reminders of age, clinging glasses, and countless dreaded pictures.
The bad news is that birthdays…

Standpoints vs Defensiveness
Conflict-avoidance reverses Anger to Validation.
I've been talking a lot about Triggers and Defensiveness.
It is clear that Defensiveness is a byproduct of Anger. Some psychiatrists see Defensiveness and Anger as a single emotion.
Counter-validating…




International Relationships and Objectification
Latest research suggests that Xenophilia is the result of ‘objectification’ from one or either parties, always unhealthy. That international relationships require strong commitment is a fact. Neuroscientists deem race-mixing as Objectifying. Although not my case, I can’t hide the discomfort of the statement. Objectification as in giving up one s culture for the other, a […]