
Standpoints vs Defensiveness
Conflict-avoidance reverses Anger to Validation.
I've been talking a lot about Triggers and Defensiveness.
It is clear that Defensiveness is a byproduct of Anger. Some psychiatrists see Defensiveness and Anger as a single emotion.
Counter-validating…

Envy or Anger
Anger can take many forms, although it is oftentimes the result of trauma and abuse.
Anger is very individual.
To me, it s primarily Envy and Regret.
I regret growing up in the 80s when teachers didn’t have any mental-health training…

Initiative / follow up
Gaining trust is challenging for neurodivergents. We are often misunderstood. It is vital setting boundaries and responsibilities in relationships between neurotypicals and neurodivergents.
My wife often tells me that I shout.It’s not…

Initiative
It’s best for neurodivergents to let trusted people do the first step.
Yesterday I relaxed with my wife after an emotional weekend.
You'll remember my resolution of avoiding to start tasks on my own.→ ASD/ADHD vs Neurotypical…




Timeless dreaming
Music is having a major breakthrough in Emotional Regulation. What does the lyric ♫ Your guilt for dreaming ♫ mean to you? I shall point out that it s from a famous David Bowie’ song entitled Time.As most of you know, Bowie is my inspiration, role-model and Godsend.He wrote a song for each state of […]