
Mindsets
Changing location has the potential of adopting a new approach to life. In my case, home. I’m not in the clear mindset to make life-changing decisions outside my comfort zone.
I'm very nostalgic these days.
That raises the question…

Traumatic Memories
I just celebrated my birthday and wish I could sink.
I see no purpose in Celebrating birthdays by stereotypes: cake, blowing candles as reminders of age, clinging glasses, and countless dreaded pictures.
The bad news is that birthdays…

Standpoints vs Defensiveness
Conflict-avoidance reverses Anger to Validation.
I've been talking a lot about Triggers and Defensiveness.
It is clear that Defensiveness is a byproduct of Anger. Some psychiatrists see Defensiveness and Anger as a single emotion.
Counter-validating…

Envy or Anger
Anger can take many forms, although it is oftentimes the result of trauma and abuse.
Anger is very individual.
To me, it s primarily Envy and Regret.
I regret growing up in the 80s when teachers didn’t have any mental-health training…




Self-care in mental health
Self-care should be pleasurable and relaxing. For neurodivergents and specific professions, it is often a stressful necessity. Meteoropathy is a real pathology. We normally associate weather with Hot or Cold, though there’s a full range of related implications for our physical and emotional health. It is still being tested whether hot or cold has the […]