
Standpoints vs Defensiveness
Conflict-avoidance reverses Anger to Validation.
I've been talking a lot about Triggers and Defensiveness.
It is clear that Defensiveness is a byproduct of Anger. Some psychiatrists see Defensiveness and Anger as a single emotion.
Counter-validating…

Envy or Anger
Anger can take many forms, although it is oftentimes the result of trauma and abuse.
Anger is very individual.
To me, it s primarily Envy and Regret.
I regret growing up in the 80s when teachers didn’t have any mental-health training…

Initiative / follow up
Gaining trust is challenging for neurodivergents. We are often misunderstood. It is vital setting boundaries and responsibilities in relationships between neurotypicals and neurodivergents.
My wife often tells me that I shout.It’s not…

Initiative
It’s best for neurodivergents to let trusted people do the first step.
Yesterday I relaxed with my wife after an emotional weekend.
You'll remember my resolution of avoiding to start tasks on my own.→ ASD/ADHD vs Neurotypical…




Self-Reinforcing Dopamine in ADHD
ADHD requires lots of Self-Awareness. We know that any decision is executed at Prefrontal level in ADHD, an advantage in emergency situations, a disadvantage in analytic settings. This scenario highlights the importance of Self-Awareness in ADHD. ADHDers have poor judgment. While this is an indelible benchmark, there are techniques to control the Impulsivity. Training is […]