Tag Archive for: Conformity

 Competition brings no Happiness. I am enough.

If we are made at the image of God, it means we are Enough.

Why conform to Societal Expectations?

Globalization is the worst scheme possible.

It is pure Competition, no help whatsoever.

Who can benefit from Competition?

Nobody. Competition is destroying our neighbor for Success, whilst staining us with Envy.

We’re all losers in this game.

Co-operation is the way to go, always benefiting all of us.
In fact, Sport is not Competition per se, each athlete is worth their efforts.
This is Teamwork.

I’m often ridiculed by people around me for my opinions.
Sometimes, I’m so disappointed that I smack my head to get rid of negativity.
It’s not easy to go against the current.
I’m a human with doubts like anyone else.
Only God reassures me of my right doings through Prayer.
I just ask for Essentials.

We all deserve Happiness.

Jesus never promised a Trouble-free life, although we can experience Happiness walking with Him.
Money alone is not Happiness.
Even non-believers know it.

I can find Happiness even in the midst of the storm, right where I am in this challenging moment.
Reward will arrive in due course.
I am enough, no better or worse than my neighbor.

Don’t allow yourself to be deprived of your Self-esteem.
Self-esteem defines you.

You are enough.




 It would seem like AI marked the end of Creative Writing.

Slogans are “personal keywords”, or “free expressions”, for we used to write our essays in school, back in the day.

Nowadays, Writing is no longer spontaneous: most authors admit to using AI in editing their books or articles. The result is a perfectly spotless manuscript, despite a robotic, unnatural, stilted language. It is like another person is writing, if you compare the original manuscript with the AI edited one, yet most bloggers and journalists are comfortable with it, what they see as a timesaver for revision, a fat No for routinely autistics.
Search-engines’ generated Keywords are shunned by the neurodivergent, yet unavoidable to gain readership, this day and age.

What’s the solution?

Create your own keywords, renamed Slogans in psychology.

Slogans are first and foremost Expressions.
Eventually, they can be detected as  “long-tail keywords” by search-engines.

However, Slogans are not exclusive to the Online business.
“Everything travels online, today” is an overly generalized statement.

Slogans can be powerful rewarding reminders in ADHD.
They are not time-related agendas. As previously mentioned, they are carefully self-crafted strategies. They are not imposed, nor resolutions.
They are highly sought after Wills, henceforth not dismissed.
ADHDers function on Rewards. They build their Reward in their Slogans.

Last but not least, Slogans can be put together to gain readership if you are in the Media business, without conforming to Keywords.







Staying up with society is the main trigger of Projection. The Present is virtually invisible in this day and age.

The Present is the only Reality, ironically the most difficult to live in.
In our digital world, the Present travels relentlessly.
We buy the latest model of smartphone when the updated version is already in the making… and if we are comfortable with an old device, we are deemed lazy and antisocial.

Technology is enslaving us.
Even so-called ‘geeks’, are having a hard time keeping up with technology.
The ‘Now’ is the new ‘Tomorrow’. 

Language is the key sign of the time.
Customary questions the likes of “What are you doing”, are put in a “What are you going to do” context.

The trend is all the more pronounced in traditional technological societies like Asia, where I live: the ‘Conversation starter’ is always “What will you do here?!”, rather than “What do you do here?” 
Routinely unnerving to me, prompting to snap sarcastically as  “I’ll eat dinner, tomorrow this time…”, to the horror of my Asian wife, shooting me at eye-point. Masking is definitely not my thing, proudly so.

We can’t afford to let go of the guard.
Obviously, someone is benefiting from all this, media giants to start with.

The pressure is almost unbearable, although I refuse to conform.